The deep secret behind the causes of disagreements in all relationships.
How is your relationship with your partner/friend/loved one?
Most likely, though not always, the difference between any two is based on:
The other party said that or didn't say that.
He did this or he didn't do it.
See the positions like
Let's remember when the last difference was with anyone?
Just a moment.
What was the difference?
We won't realize this moment until the justifications and judgments and expectations of him stop.
The situation often has accumulations, that is, it didn't start from the moment of difference.
We disagree with someone and remember what he said yesterday and last week and always says this or accuses me of yourself, and the word or sentence that you believe hurt you or your pain is still repeated and repeated and repeated inside your head.
Her watch becomes imprisoned in the past and in the situation that ended and you lost contact with the present moment that is all you have.
The situation is over, but you only create it over and over.
_ Watch out.
_ Focus on yourself and not on what happened _ Distract your mind from it for now.
Your focus on what happened attracts more of it.
All the differences are just experiences we go through and there's no chance they exist.
~ sometimes the experience is to learn a lesson.
~ sometimes the lesson is for the other party.
~ and a lot to raise awareness.
* Accept the other without judgement and without conditions.
* Give space between you and the other.
* Focus with you instead of what you're focusing with.
* Cling to your moment, it's all you have.
* Practice clearing your mind whether by meditation or by attending and paying attention to the present
"NOW"
What to ask your partner, friend or son?
What do you expect from him?
What are the hidden deals between you that you burden yourself with?
When you pay attention without justification to these deals, you discover that you are the one who burdened yourself with them and not anyone else.
What should I do or say until he loves me?
Bring a paper and a pen and write a list of everything you should do daily.
You're convinced you should do this and this...
And the other one has to do this and this is...
Okay, what if you don't?
Who's gonna get angry?
I don't mean to stop making commitments, but our realization of them reveals to us that a lot of them because of a software, are self-burdening.
And to commit yourself to saying this and doing that, create this deal} the hidden deal between you and others.
* Call yourself and speak it and start rewriting your list of obligations towards others.
* Give up what doesn't disrupt your life or others' lives.
Shui Shui, rewrite the list that always starts with "Must" and watch.
Nobody looks like anyone.
You are unique, unique, .
The difference between us doesn't mean that we create a difference between ourselves.
Accepting other people's difference from us is unconditional love.
Accept those who differ from them and do not disagree with them.
And who disagrees with him a lot:
-Get away from him Shui
- Give space
- Don't concentrate with him too much
- Shorten spending time with him.
We can't change anyone.
We can only change ourselves.
Relationships are unconditional acceptance and love.
Do not associate your acceptance or love of the other with the conduct or statement of {condition means}
_ Breathe... Yes breathe 10 breaths when an act or say disturbs you.
Breathing separates you from what happened.
Close your eyes and breathe.
_ Wash your face and hands with water while you are water conscious.
_ Light a candle and listen to 432 music frequencies.
Remember? We only have to change ourselves.
No one but you are responsible for your happiness.
Make yourself happy. No one can ruin your happiness and purity unless you permit.
Light and peace for your beautiful souls